Osamakhutiritsa Nthawi Zonse Zomwe Ana Amafuna

Makolo ambiri amakumananso ndi vuto lomwelo nthawi imodzi. Ana awo amalira ndikupanga phokoso m'sitolo chifukwa cha agalimoto yapulasitiki kapena a matabwa dinosaur chithunzi. Ngati makolo satsatira zofuna zawo kugula zoseweretsa izi, ndiye kuti ana awo amakhala owopsa ndipo amatha kukhala m'sitolo. Pakadali pano, ndizosatheka kuti makolo aziwongolera ana awo, chifukwa adasowa nthawi yabwino yophunzitsa ana awo. Mwanjira ina, ana azindikira kuti atha kukwaniritsa zofuna zawo bola ngati alira, chifukwa chake ngakhale atayeseza bwanji makolo awo, sangasinthe malingaliro awo.

Ndiye ndi liti pamene makolo ayenera kuphunzitsa ana zamaganizidwe ndi kuwauza mtundu wa zidole ndizofunika kugula?

Don't Always Satisfy All the Children's Wishes (3)

Gawo Labwino Kwambiri Phunziro Lamaganizidwe

Kuphunzitsa mwana sikumangophunzitsa mwanzeru m'moyo ndi chidziwitso chomwe chiyenera kuphunziridwa, koma kumulola mwanayo kukhala ndi chidaliro komanso kudalira. Makolo ena akhoza kudabwa kuti ali otanganidwa ndi ntchito ndipo amatumiza ana awo ku malo ophunzira, koma aphunzitsi sangathe kuphunzitsa ana awo bwino. Izi ndichifukwa choti makolo sanapatse ana awo chikondi choyenera.

Ana amafunika kusintha mosiyanasiyana m'malingaliro akamakula. Ayenera kuphunzira kuleza mtima kuchokera kwa makolo awo. Akanena zosowa zawo, makolo sangakwaniritse zonse zomwe ana akuyembekezera kuti athetse vutoli mwachangu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati akufuna chidole chofananacho atakhala nacho kalechithunzi chamatabwa, makolo ayenera kuphunzira kuzikana. Chifukwa choseweretsa chofananira chotere sichingabweretsere ana kukhutira ndikukwaniritsidwa, koma chiziwapangitsa kukhulupirira molakwika kuti chilichonse chingapezeke mosavuta.

Don't Always Satisfy All the Children's Wishes (2)

Kodi makolo ena amaganiza kuti iyi ndi nkhani yaying'ono? Malingana ngati angathe kulipira zosowa za ana, palibe chifukwa chowakana. Komabe, makolo sanaganizepo ngati angakwaniritse ana awo munthawi zonse ana awo akadzakula nadzafuna zinthu zodula? Ana panthawiyi anali kale ndi kuthekera konse komanso zosankha kuthana ndi makolo awo.

Njira Yabwino Yokanira Mwana

Ana ambiri akawona zoseweretsa za anthu ena, amawona kuti chidole ichi ndi chosangalatsa kuposa zoseweretsa zawo zonse. Izi ndichifukwa chofuna kwawo kufufuza. Ngati makolo amatengera ana awo kusitolo yogulitsa zidole, ngakhale zoseweretsa zapulasitiki zazing'ono zambiri ndipo matabwa sitima maginitozidzakhala zinthu zomwe ana amafuna kukhala nazo kwambiri. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti sanasewerepo ndi zidole izi, koma chifukwa azolowera kutenga zinthu zawo. Pamene makolo azindikira kuti ana awo "osataya mtima kufikira utakwaniritsa cholinga chako," ayenera kuwaletsa nthawi yomweyo.

Mbali inayi, makolo sayenera kulola ana awo kutaya ulemu pamaso pa anthu. Mwanjira ina, osadzudzula kapena kukana mosapita m'mbali mwana wanu pagulu. Lolani ana anu ayang'ane panokha, musalole kuti aziyang'aniridwa, kuti akhale achimwemwe ndikupanga machitidwe ena osamveka.


Post nthawi: Jul-21-2021